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As a parent now for nearly sixteen years I actually understand the fine balance between toddler discipline, and squashing the spirit of a kid.

When my first daughter Ellie was born I was totally new with this thing called parenting, and I found most of the parenting books to be contradictory at best and a few simply stupid at worst. This might seem harsh for some new parents who are looking for a clear path as a parent.

I can understand as being a parent is really a tricky business specially when it comes down to discipline and especially toddler discipline, if you opt for the free range approach and just let your children kind of develop in the vain expect all is going to be well, then you are likely to be living some kind of living nightmare, with your kid completely dictating the agenda and totally running your life.

On the other hand if you go for total discipline as favored by numerous through the years, then you run the risk of totally losing the real essences of your kid's character.

I would like to say that their is a holy grail of toddler discipline, that you can follow and tick off the list as you go, and trust me many people would try and sell it to you that way. The way I see it, it's about two core things boundaries and communication especially as your son or daughter starts to get to the toddler stage and over and above.

I still find this to be the case with my 16 and 13 old children, I have what i refer to as my fall back position, that's as far as I will go on any given issue, that's my boundary that in most cases my kids over a few years have learnt to identify, however within those boundaries their is countless opportunities of freedom of expression and chances to grow as individuals that I personally feel is vital.

To do this though good communication is key when implementing toddler discipline, to this end I have been really privileged to have learnt things like NLP which have helped me shape my vocabulary skills and body language to get maximum engagement with my kids.

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    I've deep-linked to the Advertising section, but there's a whole lot more!

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    Tissa

     

    Free SEO Analysis - for APS members - first come, first served!

    Hi folks,

    This is something I just thought of. Since you guys are all such a fantastic bunch, and this community keeps getting better all the time, I thought to provide this value-added service to you.

    I use IBP (Internet Business Promoter) - slightly older version, but effective nonetheless - for analyzing and optimizing websites. It's a fantastic tool, and I thought that perhaps some people could benefit from this analysis - even though people might not be able to afford a copy of it themselves.

    A while back I used this software to optimize one of my websites, and it has been amongst the top 10 for more than 6 months. IBP will analyze the top 10 websites for your chosen keywords, and give you suggestions to tweak your page by comparing to those top ten sites.

    Here is what I can do for you (this is free of cost for APS members, since you guys all rock, and you deserve to get paid forward to in this way):

    I can have your page analyzed for SEO and send you back suggestions that the program makes - as a RTF or PDF file. These will contain a lot of suggestions - very detailed - you will be surprised at how helpful this will be for you.

    For obvious reasons, I can only entertain one page per person, so send me the one URL you consider the most crucial. So sorry, I wish it could be more, but I don't want to make promises I cannot fulfill.

    Here is what you must do:

    1. Post here that you need my help. I will go according to the queue here, but also you must PM me (in #2). I will go on a first come, first served basis.
    2. Send me a PM with the desired keywords for which you want your website to rank, plus one URL that you want analyzed. Please note that I can only do one set of keywords per URL, due to the shortage of time.
    3. Wait for me to get back to you with the analysis report. If you don't hear from me within a week, please PM and remind me again. (Just in case I forget or something slips through the cracks). Include your email, so I can mail you the report.
    4. The report will be sent you via email, once I can have the software analyze it for you.
    5. If it helps you, please post back here with the results. This is not to give me a pat on the back, lol but more so that people can see the kind of results they might expect, and also the scope of this service.

    That's it. Hope this will help anyone out there who can use the help.

    I can't guarantee how long I can do this, and I do have limited time (between my IM and creating my own new sites and campaigns, studio work, voluntary projects, sleep, eating, etc. tongue ), so as long as I can keep up with this, I will. Just a plea: please bear with me due to my myriad commitments - it might take a bit of time to get back to you, and I will do this in the background while I work on things. If I can't keep it up, then I might have to withdraw this service, but this is just a test run for now.


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    Free Traffic for your website!

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    Question abaout hosting choice at step 2

    I specified GDI Only (Matrix) at step 2 but yesterday my new ACME referral created his search engine with hostgator. Why?

     

    monthly subscription and payable account ballance

    Hello everyone..
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    This Is Who I Am! Who Are YOU?

    I know this is off topic but I hope to use this thread for us all to get to know a little about each other.

    My name is Neil, 29 years young, born on 16th January 1981, live in a small town called Ashby De-La-Zouch in Leicestershire smack bang in the centre of England (furthest point away from the sea) in the United Kingdom, and I have 2 younger brothers who are aged 9 and 17.

    I am currently single roll, live for the weekend with my mates, have no kids, don't smoke and I work as a part time Sales Assistant for Tesco the world's 3rd largest retailer (with Walmart being the 1st, lol.) I also have 2 basic Fist Aid qualifications, basic Food Hygiene levels 1 and 2 qualifications aswell as a GNVQ - General National Vocational Qualification in Business Studies.

    I was recently taking a course with Advent IT training learning Web Design and how to be a PC Technician. Unfortunately the company went bust meaning I couldn't carry on with my training but luckily I have APS to fall back on and with you great people to help carry me through.

    I love a challenge in life, meeting people, making new friends and I enjoy participating in fundraising events such as Dragon Boat Racing and 10 Kilometre runs to raise sponsorship for Marie Curie Cancer Care and Cancer Research UK. These are my 2 main charities and I do all this in memory of some unfortunate family members who suffered from cancer.

    Here is my personal Facebook profile. Please feel free to add me as a friend if you want to know more about me and my personal life. (There are plenty of embarassing photos too)  but please don't post anything business related on my wall is all I ask smile

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    Free Advertising Topic Revival!

    There are literally thousands of postings from when this forum originated on many topics and I am creating this thread to revive many of those techniques.

    Just going through many of them so that they can be implemented to see if their effectiveness is still applicable today. Which most of them will be of course but since they are from long ago and long forgotten (or just not found), this is a good time to implement a "revival" of techniques lost to the archives.

    Everyone please share any archived material here with a link to the original poster and results of your efforts in utilizing them.

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    Since, I am currently on a free classified advertising campaign I am beginning this with Mike Oyama's post REEMikes Advertiser Listing Directory, dated: Jul 8 2009. The reason being is that when I went to this blog it had some free advertising sites that I never heard of mixed with many that have been around for awhile.

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    Get Control Over How Often Wordpress Pings Your Blog

    Hello again. Keeping up with a sequel of Wordpress plugins posts, today, I€ll show you a plugin that prevents Worpress from pinging your blog€s update unnecessarily. You know, Worpress, by default, ping your blog every time you edit and save a post or page. More than unnecessary, this may also pose as a thread for your blog indexing, since you site may be flagged as spam, drastically reducing the odds of first page indexation, even on long tailed keywords.

    I€ll start with a brief introduction of what ping means, for those who doesn€t know what I€m talking about. Then I€ll introduce this plugin I€m talking about, show you where and how to install it, and finally, how to configure it. I hope it can be useful for you.

    Introduction

    So, what is ping? Basically, all we need to know is that a ping works like some kind of signal your website send to search engines to tell them that it has been updated, as in you added new pages and posts. So, every time you use a ping service, you are informing search engines that there is new content on your website, so that they can send their €crawlers€ to index your new pages, and so on.

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    To install it, just follow the standard procedure to install a plugin on Wordpress: login to your administrator section, click on €Plugins€, €Add New€ and enter €cbnet Ping Optimizer€ at the search form. Find the plugin on the results and click on €Install€ and €Install Now€ on the pop-up window.

    Once the installation process is over, activate the plugin. You should be taken to the installed plugins list page. Find Ping Optimizer and click on €Settings€.

    From the setting page, you can add more update services URI (find more sites here), choose to enable or disable pinging, perform a manual ping, and so on.

    Once you are done customizing your installation, save your changes and there you go! It is already working as it should be. You are no longer in danger of getting banned from search engines due to excessive pings. You blog will ping only when you create a new post or page.

     

    Ajuda para Brasileiros/Support for Brazilian people

    Hello. I visited a topic yesterday from a guy from portugal offering support for brazilians in his native language. After that, considering that brazilian portuguese is actually different from portugal portuguese, I decided to create this topic, to help people from Brazil who can't understand english very well, with the ACME People Search program.

    My help includes but is not limited to completing the 3 steps, setting up the domain name, subscribing to the affiliate programs and so on.

    From this post on, I'd like to say that my further posts on this topic will be on portuguese. If some user who doens't speak portuguese fell uncomfortable with that, just manifest yourself and I'll put translation below my posts.

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    Pessoal do Brasil, usem esse topico para postar suas duvidas sobre o programa. Vou fazer o melhor possível para responder todas elas e ajuda-los, entretanto, se alguem mais puder e quiser ajudar, será muito bem-vindo.

    Programas desse estilo ainda n£o existem no Brasil. Do tipo 'revendedor Natura virtual'.. pra falar a verdade, eu estou tentando bolar alguma coisa que possa ser aplicada a nós, que facilite os pagamentos, comunicações e tenha um potencial de ganho igual a programas americanos.. mas ta dificil!

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    It's like a Trojan horse!

    Hi, Tissa!
    My partners of ACME registered to you to GDI. You sent me a letter
    saying that everything will function as before, even without pay.
    As a result, I see that it is not.
    It's like a Trojan horse! And I was not informed about it.
    So as you act with partners who are experiencing temporary
    difficulties with money and can not pay for the ACME ?
    Frankly, after ACME me in GDI no reported Affiliates. Not for the first
    trial 30 days, nor for the next.  ANY!!! 
    I guess they are all registered with Tissa! Maybe that is why he has such a high rating on the LeaderBoard :DI guess they are all registered with Tissa! Maybe that is why he has such a high rating on the LeaderBoard big_smile But it is vile!
    Why should I pay $ 39 in ACME I do not understand.
    Can anyone deny this and explain?

     
     
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